After a lot of waiting around I finally have a verdict on my car and im so peed off I can cry
Finally put my rad back on today and filled it up etc.
Turned the car over and it didnt sound quite right, had a mechanic friend round too, he checked and took the cap off and straight away after hearing it said the rings had gone if not the head gasket !
So the car is now on ebay for spares or repair, hoping to sell it whole if not I will break it for parts.
But I havent given up, I will be buying another one as soon as I have the money together

I WILL HAVE A DECENT SCOOBY IF IT KILLS ME !!
Many thanks to all that have helped with advice etc especially RobEvo
Off to drown me sorrows now lol